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12 SEXY TIPS ON HOW TO GIVE & RECEIVE THE BEST ORAL ORGASM

BY: DEBRA SHADE

As an Orgasm Coach I have guided many to their first or much improved orgasm. I spend a lot of client time on this topic.

PHOTO BY SAKSHAM CHOUDHARY FROM PEXELS

 

Fellatio Tips:

    • Never perform fellatio as a chore. Your excitement increases their excitement and therefore their orgasm.
    • Pay attention to the sensitivity of the shaft and head of the penis so that you can have fun with pressure and tongue strokes.
    • Learn to read the sexual response of your mate to take them on an orgasmic journey.

 

How to Give Good Cunnilingus

The same can be said about the delivery of cunnilingus.

 

Tips for Cunnilingus

    • Use your whole mouth on the entire external vagina.
    • Use your hand to apply a little pressure on the vulva to stimulate the internal clitoris which makes the external parts more sensitive.
    • *Note: If the clit gets too sensitive and becomes uncomfortable for your mate, you can use the clitoral hood to create a buffer over the clitoris. If this does not work, stay away from the clitoris or take a break.
    • When you begin to perform, pay attention to the outer and inner lips. Lick and suck them softly. If wanted, you can nibble on them as well.
    • Use a stiff tongue to play with the vaginal opening, you can reach many of the nerve endings there. You can use a flat, loose tongue to stroke from the perineum to the tip at the base of the vulva. Add wetness as you do so to increase the friction.
    • If using dental dam, place lube on the vagina to create the best level of wetness.
    • As your mate gets more into what you are doing -you will know this because they will squeeze your head with their thighs or press down onto your face- follow through to orgasm.
    • Unless directed to do so, don’t stop whatever you are doing through the climax, don’t stop to soon. I can’t stress that enough. If you get too excited, you may change your position or pressure causing a disruption in the orgasm.
    • Moving forward with penetration if wanted will continue the orgasmic journey through multiple orgasms.

 

Oral Sex Just for Foreplay?

 

Oral sex is usually done for foreplay. I tell people that foreplay should involve the erogenous zones and oral sex is an act itself. The more you “warm” up your mate to the sexual experience you can provide, the better the results.

Talk to your partner, find out what they know about their pleasure. You shouldn’t force them to be satisfied with what you have always done with others. All vulvas are different and need different stimulation. The same for the penis. If your blowjob is a series of habit, you need to shake it up, listen to your mate and deliver their version of a wonderful orgasm.

 

In case you haven’t caught on, communication is very important to the orgasm. Instead of treating your mate like a Rubik cube where you take a bunch of complex moves trying to get the colors to match. If you listen to them, and of course, if you share what works to get you to orgasm, then you know you are going to have one. But if you guide someone, they can adjust to enhance what you’re asking for, taking things to the next level for you, giving you your best orgasm… EVER!

Author: Debra Shade
Clinical Sexologist and Master Sexpert. As an Orgasm Coach, I help individuals and couples have their best experience. I consult on various topics of sexual exploration and acceptance.

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